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Why pray for those who are no more?

malumiereetmonsalut Par Le 29/03/2023 à 09:51 0

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The answers of a questioning are always linked to a context, a bias or an opinion. Illustrative Image: Fotorech Pixabay

Whether good or bad, the answers of a questioning are always linked to a context, a bias or an opinion which varies depending on individuals living in an environment certainly where divergences of points of view can generate conflicting relationships, but where each person defines himself and makes himself known to the other particularly through what he does and what he believes, because the right to difference is permitted and guaranteed by a set of institutions whose divine authority aims to promote unity in diversity which, although imperfect, is nevertheless the assurance of peaceful coexistence in a world where even if we have no obligation to believe or even understand what we do not need, we still have the freedom to think, believe and give an opinion which must also be respectful of the freedoms of others above all when they do not go against the republican values ​​of peace, unity and social cohesion.

Asking the question of why pray for the dead is not only recognizing that there are those who do not act like us or who do not think like us, but also displaying one's intention of wanting to know what it is concretely about, either to feed our curiosity, enrich our culture, or for any other reasons which are sometimes hidden behind bad intentions to which we must provide answers which however must always be located within our domain of definition because, we cannot properly talk about ourselves especially with regard to questions of faith by putting ourselves outside the context to which we belong even if we can form our own opinion or have one or more particular ideas on the subject that results from the personal relationship we have with God.

It is on this basis that not only does everyone express themselves, but we also allow others to understand what we are, what we do, and what we believe. While science for example understands by biological death and clinical death respectively “the condition when all the organs of the body including the brain have ceased functioning for the first[1]”, and the heart which has stopped beating or “the terms used when the blood circulation and breathing are coming to an end[1]", the Christian tradition distinguishes those who died in the love of God from those who disconnected themselves from this love to the point of dying outside this love. This second category, made up of a set of individuals who freely made the choice of damnation during their earthly life, is distinguished from that on which it would be better to focus particularly because being the one which brings together those who have given their lives to Jesus during their lifetime. If there is indeed on the base of intellectual knowledge a scientific context or better yet a scientific point of view regarding death, there is also a religious and even cultural context because each culture has an idea of ​​death, or that of an afterlife death which does not always agree with scientific and religious points of view.

"In Africa, there is no boundary between the visible and the invisible" Illustrative image: monikawl999 pixabay

To those who ask for example why do Africans maintain a particular relationship with the dead, we will say, like the Senegalese poet Léopold Sédar Senghor (1906-2001) that: “In Africa, there is no boundary between the visible and the invisible, between life and death. Reality only acquires its depth and becomes truth by expanding to the extensible dimensions of the surreal”[2]. In other words, as Birago Diop (1906-1989) said in his poem souffles, “those who died never left. They are in the lightening shadows and in the deepening shadows; they are not under the earth, but in the tree that quivers, the wood that groans, the water that flows, the water that sleeps; they are in the hut, and also in the crowd[2]”; in short, “the dead are not dead[2]”. And for those who believe in it, we need to pay attention to how we behave in our living environment because the respect that we show towards everything that is around us is already a prayer.

Respecting our environment is a prayer; planting trees is a prayer; campaigning for the preservation of forest and marine ecosystems is a prayer. Everything that Men does to be in harmony with himself and the environment in which he lives is a prayer because if the other is not really dead but still remains among us in an invisible way and even visible through the other living animal and plant beings, the good acts that we perform on a daily basis are as satisfying for him as for us. “Time does not belong to us; it imposes itself on us. We cannot escape it and it inevitably leads to death, our death and that of those we love who give us the experience of mourning which opens us to other dimensions of time.[3]”Our actions, and we must specify the good ones, must be prayers which truly testify to the love we have for our environment and our cultures which arise from the universal love of God for all Mens. In this sense, the one who acts is a living person who does not act for dead people but for invisible living beings and other visible animal and plant living beings who reside in the same living environment as him and who also want our environment to be treated with great care because it is in fact a common house as the Holy Father Francis said in his encyclical letter Laudato si'[4] of May 24, 2015 relating to the safeguarding of the common house.

It is this same idea of ​​communion that is also found in Catholic Christianity. Even if many people know that Roman Catholics in particular pray for the dead, not everyone knows exactly what it is.

One of the elements of response to this concern is found in the first letter of Saint Paul to the Corinthians in chapter 12, and verses 12 to 14: “Christ is like a single body, which has many parts; it is still one body, even though it is made up of different parts. In the same way, all of us, Whether Jews or Gentiles, whether slaves or free, have been baptized into the one body by the same spirit, and we have all been given the one spirit to dink. For the body itself is not made up of only one part, but of many parts.[5]” In other words, whatever you were before or the condition in which you found yourself, when you accept Christ as Lord and Saviour after listening to the word of God or after a period of pre-baptismal accompaniment or catechumenate, you enter the great family of the children of God through Christ, who are all called through all what they do to work towards the extension of His reign of love on earth. And since this work or mission of redemption of God in the present world, no member or better yet, no Christian family can exercise it alone, there are other families which also have their particularities which results from the particular relationship that they have with Christ.

This is the reason why, if some baptize the dead through Christian members of their Christian families, others will not do it because the relationship they have with God forbids them because according to them, it is necessary give your life to Jesus during your lifetime. For still others and for the Catholic Church in particular, one must adhere to the faith of the Church during one's lifetime to benefit from all the means of sanctification. What is it about?

It is about accepting Christ into your life after listening to the word of God and being baptized to enter the great family of the children of God. The only difference is that you have become a Christian of the Roman Catholic Church which itself is subdivided into three complementary groups or better, three states link to its faith in a single God namely: The present Church or in pilgrimage on earth, the Church suffering or in a state of atonement, and the celestial Church. Concretely this means this: if you become a Catholic Christian, you have passed from death to life with Christ through baptism. And since the Apostle Saint Paul says in verses 38 and 39 of the 8th chapter of his epistle to the Romans that: “Neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created things, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord”[6], we are no longer dead people but alive people, members of the Roman Catholic Christian family. So as the name indicates, if the earthly pilgrimage ends, for the spiritual body, it is either the state of expiation of the suffering Church which is already the certainty of eternal life with this precision that it is a transitional phase of limited duration, or else the celestial Church directly. However, it is important to clarify two things: First, “each man receives his eternal retribution in his immortal soul at the very moment of his death, in a particular judgment that refers his life to Christ: either entrance into the blessedness of heaven through  a purification or immediately an everlasting damnation[7]" (CCC 1022) Secondly, like all other Christian families on the basis of what the Gospel according to Saint John tells us from verses 28 to 29 of its 5th chapter: “Do not be surprised at this; The time is coming when all the death will hear his voice and come out of their graves: those who have done good will rise and live, and those who have done evil will rise and be condemned.[5]"

Prayer for the dead is a prayer for the living. Illustrative image: Pixabay

After the configuration to Christ, the sacrament which makes the one who receives it a child of God, change his condition. He or she became a member of the same family as Us, a brother who accepted the same God as Us, a child of God whose memories on the one hand, and prayers on the other, will always be useful. Prayer for the dead is therefore a prayer for the living. Those who accept Christ into their lives become new creatures in Him who will always have the grace to have recourse to His holy mercy whenever necessities present themselves to them, or when they feel the need to be reconciled with God to not running the risk of dying in a state of mortal sin or radically separated from the love of God.

And even in this case, that is to say, in case of mortal sins, the Church always prays for its members because the prayer of faith made by the righteous according to God can move mountains. The righteous or forgiven sinners who are still on pilgrimage on earth and who intercede for those who are no more can save their sisters and brothers from damnation because like Abraham who knew that the inhabitants of Sodom were evil still implored God's mercy in the 32nd verse of the 18th chapter of the book of Genesis by telling to God that: "suppose ten [righteous] are found there?" And God said: " I will not destroy it on account of the ten.[5]” And today there are more than ten; there are billions of Christians or forgiven sinners always animated by the hope that everything is possible because when several people gather to ask something from Jesus and especially during a Eucharistic celebration or the celebration of the sacrament of their salvation, He is in their midst and He will always hear their prayers.

Everyone can experience the holy mercy of God provided they lead a life in accordance with his word which is only Love and which would like us to sympathize with the pain of others even if they found themselves in this situation because of their sins. It is not a question of condoning evil and even less of becoming friends of sin but rather of being workers of peace, conscious of the ineffable love of God for all Mens despite everything.

A good or bad memory has a useful value that does not expire. Illustrative image: susanpuren pixabay

This memory that remains

Men pass but memories remain to allow those who are still on the way to become better people. Even if these memories, good or bad, require duties of quality memory which manifest themselves and are limited for some in many cases through and at the level of funerals, these memories of a life lived and arriving at its term transcend these episodes of sadness and rejoicing to become for those who are still on earth a call to persevere in the good in order to have a good death.

The need to pray for those who are no more also lies in our ability to properly highlight their good deeds and reject those that are harmful so that our present deeds are a continuation of their good works on earth. Those who believe in God in general or in Jesus Christ as Lord in particular, all pray for the deceased without exception. If for some it is wise to stop at the last farewell, for others on the other hand, it is necessary to continue this outpouring of solidarity or charity after the funeral. But that is not the most important thing because in fact, if no longer praying for a person to whom we have already said goodbye is doing good, being convinced of the opposite and putting it into practice is just as good. But the most important thing is to remember the minimum necessary for our own good and that of our fellow human beings by improving our personal relationship with God thanks to the useful memories that the one who preceded us has left us.

A good or bad memory has a useful value that does not expire. “The dead of whom we have great memories are those who were very important to us; they were, in some way, parts of ourselves. This part is taken from us by death but we cannot lose it.[3] » As long as we have the breath of life, we should draw inspiration from it to be a better person. The reality of errors and mistakes in the daily life of Men will not detract from the fact that a life well lived will always produce fruits that remain and will allow those who are no longer to always have reason to hope. If for some there is nothing more to wait for and do for a dead person, others on the other hand think that it is the beginning of another life which gives rise to interactions which are as useful for the living as for dead people who are not actually dead but rather living people who have reached another stage of their life.

Questioning is always the starting point for a satisfactory answer. Seeking to know the why of things or a particular thing is already recognizing that we do not know and that we would like to know or know better. Even if in fact the other may have an idea of ​​what it is about, as long as this idea does not follow the logic of the true source, it is only one point of view among many others which has nothing to do with what it is really about, especially with regard to the truths of faith.

He who puts his trust in Jesus is an apostle of hope. He knows that even at the end of his earthly pilgrimage, God will never abandon him. He is aware of the fact that even if he has not always done what God expected of him, the members of his family, both spiritual and biological, will still pray for the rest of his soul when he is no more. And even if the circumstances of life led him to doubt this certainty, the prayers of a Church which never forgets its own will always be of great comfort to him.

Also read: Relationship of trust: The need to believe in God without having seen, so as not to be satisfied with seeing before believing

An apostle of hope does not necessarily need to find out whether the people he is praying for are really in heaven. He knows that if God wants, he will let him know because nothing is impossible for him who believes in a holy mercy whose works go beyond the rational domain by making possible the impossibilities thus defined by Men. This precision makes it possible to limit the capacities of Men to that which is humble, or which depends on the authority of his prayers under the cover of a divine mercy which is of interest to everyone, but which is deployed as She wants, manifests itself in the life of whom She wants, as She wants and especially when She wants.

By praying for the dead we fulfil a duty of memory towards a brother, a sister, a friend or a compatriot who certainly did not lead a perfect life but who deserves at least in the name of the same faith we share, that we commend his soul to the Holy Mercy of God.

“The death that touches us, the death that concerns us, the death that interests us is that of mourning. This death of the other which puts us in mourning also speaks to us about our own.[3]” If belonging to a Christian family or a community of God's children gives us the privilege of experiencing God's mercy and not ending up in damnation, this “does not exclude a certain number of conditions. These offerings are only useful to those who, during their life, have deserved that they may later be useful to them.[8]” The fact that God is merciful does not give us the right to lead a life of disorder while hoping to benefit from His favours. Our life must reflect the model we have chosen for ourselves. It is not a question of seeking at all costs to be perfect and boasting of not being a sinner like the others. It is about recognizing one's weaknesses and despite everything seeking holiness through everything one does because it is the vocation of all those who call themselves children of God. Until his last breath, Men has the possibility of being saved. Even if he die with the feeling of not having done the right choices at the right moment, his good intentions emanating from the sincerity of his heart despite his weaknesses will allow him to access celestial beatitude thanks to the prayers of those who have made the choice to never tire of praying not for the dead, but for deceased brothers who have made the choice during their earthly pilgrimage to accept Jesus as their Lord and saviour and who like all other Mens, also have the possibility of experiencing God's mercy both during and at the end of their earthly pilgrimage.

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Bibligraphic orientation

[2] CHEVRIER, Jacques, Anthologie africaine II, Hatier international, Paris, 2002

Biblical references

[5] GOOD NEWS BIBLE with Deuterocanonical Books (1 Corinthians 12, 12-14; John 5, 28-29)

[6] New American Standard Bible 1977(Romans 8, 38-39; Genesis 18, 32)

References

[1] Write the differences between clinical death and biological death

[3] Entre l’instant et la durée: la mort!

[4] ENCYCLICAL LETTER LAUDATO SI' OF THE HOLY FATHER FRANCIS ON CARE FOR OUR COMMON HOME

[7] CATHÉCHISM OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH

[8] “LAISSE LES MORTS ENSEVELIR LEUR MORTS” (MT 8, 22) : LE SOIN DES CORPS ET LE SOUCI DES ÂMES (XIIE-XIIIE SIÈCLE

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